Thank you so much for the kind comment, Ira! And I'm very happy to know that this type of analysis can be relevant to happily married people too. I am really struggling with this book (referenced at the bottom which the two posts are stuff I deleted from the manuscript). The topic (marriage across time and space) is too broad, and I haven't built a professional profile around this topic (even though I have researched it for many years), and perhaps most of all, I fear offending the happily married. Anyway, I need to get it done as I have an editor and agent awaiting the manuscript (for years now!). Your encouraging comment helps:)